Best friends for life — build new ones


Best friends for life; It is all about you… but make it all about them. The more they feel you care about them and the less you talk about you, the stronger and faster the relationship will be and grow. Only talk about you when they ask you, otherwise it is about them. Don’t be the “Upper” also known as the “1 Up Person”. They tell a story and you respond with “Oh yeah, me too. This one time…”. Bad tactics start with bad habits.

Listening is a big part of TAC. It is always about them so it can eventually get back to you. Your best friend is your best friend because you are there for THEM, and you listen to THEM, and you protect THEM. People who talk about themselves are look at as selfish or annoying. Though, to befriend a person you have to ignore that factor. If you want them to except you than listen to all their self exploitation without judging. It will turn around and become an open floor for you as time progresses.

The idea is to become best friends for life. It takes time and some effort of calm on your part. Don’t be the person always trying to 1 up the story. If someone says something about a subject don’t respond with your story that adds to their story, or takes the attention off of them and onto you. In fact, how about you stop thinking about what you are going to say while they are talking and just listen to what they are saying. It is not about YOU… well, for now at least. You want this person to like you, so give them respect enough to know you care.

Don’t feel like you are on deck for the next at bat and you’re just waiting for your turn to hit the ball. It is not always about you hitting the ball. It is about winning the game. This game can only be won by getting runs. Runs are brought in by having people on base. You don’t want to be that one hitter who always gets home-runs while no one is on base do you? It is about being that person on base who gets brought in by the next hitter. Or staying in the game and getting to third to help fill up the bases for that big grand-slam. Bad tactics start with bad habits, break the habits by giving a little to others when it comes to your ear…

http://www.ByTheBloodOfTheRoseProductions.com
http://www.Facebook.com/BBRProductions
http://www.Twitter.com/BBRPro
http://www.BBRoseProductions.wordpress.com
http://www.BBRProductions.tumblr.com
http://www.BBRProductions.blogspot.com

Advertisements

About BBR Productions Inc,

Our mission is to bring reality to your dreams by being an affordable all inclusive production company for every type of venture and those who wish to find success in their possibilities. In 1996 BBR Productions Inc., began which was strictly an illustration company working with local illustrators and comic book company’s. In 1997 BBR Productions Inc., expanded adding audio recordings, graphic and web design, photography and mass marketing. BBR Productions Inc., first major client was TENEbRAE although other bands were signed on to the company roster for marketing and graphic design layouts. During 2000 BBR Productions Inc., began setting up small local shows and organizing large musical events featuring national acts throughout the Tri-state area. Working with musical acts, comedians and actors BBR Productions Inc., expanded yet again to more of an all inclusive entertainment company. In 2007 Began doing more with direct consultation, helping others create opportunities as well as managing more acts. 2008 marked the 1st annual Laughter is the cure show, helping raise money for foundations such as "Multiple Sclerosis Foundation" and various "Cancer Foundations". Soon to be on its 5th year. In 2013 BBR Productions Inc., opened its offices on Long Island NY allowing space to do in house seminars helping others realize their dreams with the help of people who have already been there. On October 3rd, BBR Productions Inc., will open their second office in Holbrook growing from 1,000 square feet to 3,800 square feet.
This entry was posted in Uncategorized. Bookmark the permalink.

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s