Communicating with more then just words – Body language and nonverbal cue’s;



Part of having great communication skills involves picking up on nonverbal cue’s. You know what I’m talking about even if you are not aware of it. Rolling your eyes when people say something stupid is an easy example for you to think about.

When sending txt messages and emails its important to be very specific in what you are writing so it cant be misinterpreted by others. Letting people read something into it that you didn’t mean is a sure way to cause problems. Part of the reason being they cant see you to use the nonverbal cue’s you project to convey humor, irritation, playfulness etc. We have slightly overcome this through adding cute little 🙂 or goofy things like ROTFLMAO or one of my favorites when I don’t want people to think I’m kidding (•͡. •͡┌П┐ none of which are appropriate for a business contact. You can run into the same problem when speaking on the phone just not as badly since there they can at least hear your tone of voice.

All of this so you will understand just what type of impact your conversations have. Your best bet is always a face to face conversation with whomever it is you need to speak with. You can see and feel what they are saying to you. You can tell when they are exaggerating or lying. You can have much more useful interactions face to face then you could ever have using the internet, Facebook, email or a phone call. I’m a huge fan of getting in the room with a person, I can do anything if I’m face to face I could sell them stock in my new moon base. If you want some land on the moon call to set up an appointment so we can talk face to face. Start watching how people act when they talk, do they cross their arms? Lean back or forward? Do they place things between you to maintain distance. Can they make eye contact? There are so many things we can pick up on. If you start to pay more attention to this you will be able to negotiate much better.

You can learn this, it can be taught. Self taught or actually taught. You already do a lot of it on an instinctual level. Doubt me? <rolls eyes> ok well your loss. 🙂 <LMAO>

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Our mission is to bring reality to your dreams by being an affordable all inclusive production company for every type of venture and those who wish to find success in their possibilities. In 1996 BBR Productions Inc., began which was strictly an illustration company working with local illustrators and comic book company’s. In 1997 BBR Productions Inc., expanded adding audio recordings, graphic and web design, photography and mass marketing. BBR Productions Inc., first major client was TENEbRAE although other bands were signed on to the company roster for marketing and graphic design layouts. During 2000 BBR Productions Inc., began setting up small local shows and organizing large musical events featuring national acts throughout the Tri-state area. Working with musical acts, comedians and actors BBR Productions Inc., expanded yet again to more of an all inclusive entertainment company. In 2007 Began doing more with direct consultation, helping others create opportunities as well as managing more acts. 2008 marked the 1st annual Laughter is the cure show, helping raise money for foundations such as "Multiple Sclerosis Foundation" and various "Cancer Foundations". Soon to be on its 5th year. In 2013 BBR Productions Inc., opened its offices on Long Island NY allowing space to do in house seminars helping others realize their dreams with the help of people who have already been there. On October 3rd, BBR Productions Inc., will open their second office in Holbrook growing from 1,000 square feet to 3,800 square feet.
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One Response to Communicating with more then just words – Body language and nonverbal cue’s;

  1. HAHAH Monkey in a Spacesuit!

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