People are going to lie to you. They are going to tell you things to push you away because they are not interested. Things like, “You are really good, call me tomorrow”. Don’t get discouraged over this. Prove to them you are more than what they perceive you to be and be persistent.
Bleed through the trenches of lies
Sometimes the lies are less about you and more about them. They want you to have a good opinion of them, and so they lie. “You look nice today.” “Wow you have an amazing singing voice.” Things like that. Vague comments, unspecified compliments with hazy dates and times about talking again. Chances are they may not have been paying attention, were distracted or simply having a bad day. Once you realize this, its more about making your way through it. What you need to do at this point is make them see the error of their was. Grab their attention and make them see you for who and what you are, that being AMAZING!
Now if they are simply full of it all the time no matter what, well then those people need to be pushed off to the side of the herd were they can be picked off by a predator and eaten. Ignore those people they weren’t hugged enough as children and take pleasure in anything that makes others as miserable as they are. Stay upbeat and positive and be the person you can be without allowing the naysayers to cloud your world view. Your in the trenches of life and life unfortunately is plagued with people who lie for one reason or another. Some to save face, some to being others down and some because they’re simple human.
They key is to constantly be persistent and keep going no matter what keep a positive outlook and for the one person who blows you off there will be others who say “That person has a positive attitude, we could use more like him.” Those are the people who count, the ones you want to know. Make friends with them and appreciate them for who they are, just like they appreciate you.